She told me she was getting tired of the accusations and I told her I have been tired of the secrecy. Not a real good morning or night.
"(Wife), when you aren't honest and transparent with me, I can only assume you are either still in contact with another man or that you want to be able to be. That doesn't work for me, and I can't be much clearer than that, so I guess it's up to you what you want to do about it. I'm going to live my life."
This is good... going to have to remember that if my H ever comes around to caring what I do.
After I found out about the affair my H was having, he wouldn't give up his devices or accounts for me to view. I didn't ask but he didn't offer. Then 2 weeks later I discover that he is still carrying on the affair. At that point, I think he got nervous I would leave & he ended it and gave me access to everything. He then also offered to go to counseling. However, after our most recent damaging event, he has taken it all back & does a lot of concealing what he is typing on his phone. So I wonder what is going on with him.
So I can understand how it is hard to not think that something is going on when they are not completely open. I am stuck in the very same spot.
T: 14 M: 12 D: 9 S: 6 BD: 2/18/15 (H affair) Working on marriage: 3/12/15-6/11/15 Broken Trust (my error): 6/11/15 H ring off: 7/6/15; Comm w/ OW confirmed 7/13/15 H wants to work on fixing things: 7/21/15
