Now that I think more about it. I wanted the dating for a chance to show her I was different to show her my 180's. I wanted to show her I could be a fun and enjoyable person again. One of her criticisms of me was that I had become a homebody and didn't go out like we used to. Our relationship had become stale. I wanted to get dressed up and look nice and take her to nice dinners, show off my weight loss work.
But did you even do that? Reread your account of the night. Did you really show the person you want to be?
In my opinion, it's too soon to start with that. Why show her a "work in progress" when you could wait a few months and REALLY show off? As I've written before you can't see grass grow or paint dry if you watch it. But if you're gone for a month, you'll notice, right?
