My W called me this afternoon wanting to know where I was, because I was driving the car she wanted to trade in for a hybrid. (We'd already discussed who gets what car, and I happened to have "hers" at the time, so all was good.) She found me, we exchanged cars, and she asked before proceeding, "Is that okay, babe?" Not sure why she asked, but yeah, I actually thought it was a good move. She kissed me.
A bit later, I sent a text asking if she had already traded the car in. She called right away to ask again if I had a problem with it. I said no, just was wondering. But I also was wondering where she had stashed away a certain pair of pants I was hoping to wear to my first day on the job tomorrow. She showed up unexpectedly to help me find them.
I cut a phone conversation short to go out and see the car. Afterwards, she asked AGAIN what is it I know about the OW that she doesn't. That seed has really taken root, but I refuse to give it any more life of my own doing.
I will miss the old car, though.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
