Huge Backslide After Affair Recovery

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Ugh. Just like I expected. We have been having a pleasant day, nice interactions... Him starting more of them than me... But then while watching a movie for a class I am in, I see him typing & then he is angling his phone in a way that I cannot see. When all the other times he was on fb he was keeping it out where it wasn't hidden. Then later I hear his phone vibrate & he doesn't look at it. When he goes out of the room, I look at the screen & it says "content hidden" on the message that came in (& he changed all his passwords after he got so mad at me).

My impulse is to say- are you talking to her. Just straight out. But then my brain tells me that it wouldn't be wise when I have no negotiating power... I have to get him totally willing to commit to a relationship first. And I could lose whatever headway we ha last night.... If that is what it was.

Man, this is so discouraging and makes me want do something back at him.