Hi V,
so I read some other threads regarding building friendship with ww. My sitch seems different in that my w left because she wasn't happy, planned on d all along. She is now dating because it is over for us. So if I went nc, it wouldn't draw her back. I think the only way for us to be together is if its as if we never knew each other, and start over. I gal, work on myself, date and don't pursue my w in any way including worrying weather we are building a friendship. Just be friendly to her.
I have a lot of work to do on myself and that is going to have to be my focus anyway if I am going to have any life.

Last edited by help67; 07/12/15 08:04 PM.

Me:47
W:47
D:12
T:27yrs.
M:17yrs.
S:10/14
Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr.
om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer