My wife is a maternity nanny she works with babies and I know the job that she is working in at the moment so defiantly no other person
The changes that I am starting to make are life changes I know that this has to be for ever
It could be electronic. She has several nights away from home every week to Skype and chat for hours on end with any old boyfriend or new man on the entire planet. Facebook is probably the number one beginning contact of all affairs.
OR, perhaps less likely....
It's the husband (or his brother or brother in law) of the family she's nanny'ing for.
Speculation aside. Keep doing whatever it is you are doing that Chuck likes AND independently rule out that your wife may be in a illicit relationship with another man.
BTW = while she's out several nights a week working are you the one primarily taking care of all your children? If so, you sound like an awful husband and father [sarcasm]. My point is....you may be taking on too much of the blame for the current status of your marriage. The truth is typically you both drove it into the ditch and you both should be working to pull it out of the ditch. She won't do that if she's romantically interested in someone else and she'll find anything you do NOW trying to pull it out of the ditch yourself infuriating because it's not part of the justification and rationalization rubric she's already constructed in her mind to excuse herself for cheating on you.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
