Yes, one could say we are already having an emotional affair. I can live with that without feeling bad about myself because I know I can’t change my feelings… but I CAN change my behavior. As excruciatingly difficult as it is, I don’t believe we should touch beyond holding hands until we are truly free to be in a relationship and celebrate that. I can wait 2-3 months for that day, E. And if it comes, I will be the happiest woman on earth and do everything in my power to make you happy too!
This is my favorite part...she's right, she can't control her feelings, just her behavior...only isn't sending a profession of love to a committed woman and encouraging her to leave her family a 'behavior'?
If she really believed in this "can't control feelings only behavior" she would've had a moment of silence for the desire she couldn't fulfill and backed the #_^U_( off...
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15