A new thread - My W's OW, the Predator

[Painter]

That seems like a very short time from their initial meeting to deciding to leave... Is this an exit A? Or is your WW very easily influenced in general?

The e-mail can absolutely be seen as controlling and manipulative. Coaching her on how to distance herself from you is very overbearing.

I have only seen one text from OW to H - it ended 'try not to rage tonight'. I have later realized how manipulative that was, as she knew I thought H was angry at me all the time (he was, out of guilt), but that day he was just coming back from a trip and we had no conflict. She was simply reminding him to be angry at me, but camouflaging it as care.