Originally Posted By: Matt777
Also, she's sleeping out of the house half the nights of a week and that leads you to believe there's no way she's having an affair?!?


This ^^^^. 2x4 incoming. Ghost, how do you know your W is not having an affair? You certainly should not take her word for it! Ask me how I know this. Ask the 1000's of LBS's on this site how they know. Sandi's rule #32 is don't believe anything they say. While it may turn out she is telling the truth, you need to independently and covertly investigate the possibility of an A and don't just take her word for it. Cheaters lie. Period. She has the motive and she has the means (sleeping away from the house half of the week?? Hello??)

Please don't rule out an A and keep posting here for guidance.


Me: 34
W: 30
Together: 11 years
Married: 4 years
BD: 4/2014
A Discovered: 5/2014
WW Filed: 7/2014
Separated: 8/2014
Divorced: 10/2015