I can't post much right now. I am thinking of you. Wish I could go R you a call or something.
I see manipulation.
You won't support her? She's going to kick you in the balls again.
As my ex is telling everyone how upset he is...he is doing the equivalent of bikini pics. Some people live their whole lives with no center, no strong mind, a mirror of whatever is sitting in front of them, reflecting the hopes and expectations they see there. You and I loved our spouses dearly when that love was reflected back. And they are wayward. Bored and confused littke mirrors off to go find the next great thing that still won't fill the holes.
She is the enemy now. Be a diplomat, and fight for you first. No more for her. You are too good for this.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
