I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

So yesterday I had my first telephone coaching session with chuck and it was great to hear that I have been doing a lot of the things that I should be doing

He talked about distancing from my wife but this is difficult very difficult

We are living in the same house and doing all of the mundane things and we are getting along very well but I do not know how things are going to move back t o us being together

It almost feels that she is happy living with me at the moment and as long as I am doing more arround the house and more with the kids then this is what she wants we watch television together and do things together but we have not been out together just the two of us

Do I keep things as they are knowing I want us to move to getting closer together or,do I keep distancing myself

It feels like We are in limbo and it scares me the longer we are apart the more unlikely I feel it is that we will get back together

She has told me that we will not get back together so I guess it is going to be a slow process and I am determined to keep doing all the tithings that she wanted and asked me to do whilst we were together