Originally Posted By: West1
She hasnt done anything to try to punish me or hurt me as of yet. Reaction to my reaction before, but there has not been any anger or arguing, lots of talking and back and forth and asking questions.she told me even her lawyer recommended against it and she is still wanting to do it. Said that she was going to come home tonight and wait a couple weeks to move the rest of the stuff back home. She just wanted me to move the couch into there, she didnt want the bed, she had accused me earlier during the separation of having women over the entire time she was gone. She didnt want to sleep on the bed thinking of that,


Just so I'm clear, she does not want to sleep in the marital bed, b/c she thinks you cheated on her, in it, correct?

If that is not true, if the marital bed is still something only slept in by you two, tell her that. (Especially if she has back pain).

But seriously, don't let that piece get swept up with the rest. I think it's important to her to know that not everything inside the marriage has been spoiled). That the bed is still "clean", etc.



Make sense?



had already moved it and made it, since there really isnt room for king size in basement.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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