Well, it's tough to read but it's similar to what I suspect has happened to Most of us who have had partners in a.
In my case xh2 refused point blank to end the a, and I decided if he could be stolen and coached by the nasty ow, he's just not a worthy h.
My plan was work in me, date me (as someone else coined) and see what else happens and Lo and behold things changed and other things have happened. It's nearly a couple of years since his a started and she's been the gf for over a year. It's unlikely he was coming back.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26