H and OW & her kids got back from their vacation late Thurs. Today, H took our children to the lake with his parents, the OW & one of her children.
When my children came home, my DS16 was sooo upset and frustrated.
All my H kept talking about was how that he has no money.
H was ranting how I took all the money leaving him with only $200 and he spent $100 today so he's left with nothing. H also complained that all the stuff in the house stays and why do I need the utility trailer.
DS16 said he told him, "it was your choice to leave." H didn't listen to what my son said. Instead H kept getting louder in tone stating that people are offering him money, his parents, OW, friends, etc. cuz they feel bad for him. H also said, "I know God will get me through this." UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm telling you - he plays the victim so well.
I'm fighting cancer, trying to raise our children, trying to find a job, and he feels like I'm living it up. I'm sure he tells everyone how "easy" I have it.
I'm so mad at what he's doing.
I keep telling my children to tell their dad that they don't understand and really don't want to talk about the D. They don't understand. If anything, it's not helping how they feel about him.
I told my children not to worry and that it isn't their fault for all of this. They really don't need to know about all the financial stuff since that's between their dad and me.
How do I stop my H from talking about this nonsense with our children?
Lord help me. Lord grant me guidance, wisdom and strength.
