"Ahead" might be a pretty strong word! You have a whole lot more experience than I do.

I am PISSED at the OW, especially now that I see how she manipulated and calculated this whole thing from the very beginning. But I'm also PISSED at my W, who should have loved me and been committed enough to never let this happen. Still, I know she was under a lot of duress, comes from a culture far from here, and thus was perhaps a bit more vulnerable to the influence of others than someone else might have been. MLC, Albanian style. While I'm more pissed at her than anyone, she also happens to be the one I love. So I just need to pray and stay the course. It's only been two months. ONLY two months...

But you? Your PMA is in a really good place right now, and I'm going to pray it stays that way!

Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19