What else is there to say? My focus today is on kids and giving them a carefree day. Today it was spent by the pool! They are very happy to spend all day at the pool!!
I read the email you posted. I too thought that about the AP until I realized my w was not under a spell, nor had she been hoodwinked or captured. She willingly chose to act and behave in ways that broke our family and marriage.
For me personally I chose to stop my focus on her. My W made her choices and acted on them many many many times. It is on her. The AP is not the cause for my situation. I finally chose to do what you are doing now and pray for her.
It took me a long time to realize that. So you are ahead of me!
