Hang in there, Mstd. Abuse calls for strong defenses, not the softness snd consideration of DR.

Hugs. Know that despite clarity, you may have moments of doubt ahead. Don't let it rock you. Thinking of you.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.