Yeah Matt... how about tonight we both agree to have faith that we are DBing the best we can, and despite what they say or how they act, our spouses are missing us somehow, some way too. And that perhaps the day will come when all this hardship winds up being the catalyst for truly amazing and new relationships with our spouses down the road.

I think sometimes we have to believe that's the direction we're headed. We have to employ positive thinking. After all, our hope for reconciliation is the driving reason we're here.


Me: 46 Her: 41
M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18
3/26 W and I meet OW
BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring
W goes to stay with OW 6/26
NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16
I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19