Help and support appreciated

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I was the one that suggested moving to the basement and having her be in the master bedroom as I am the one who was cheating.there was no anger or upset at all today or the last week while we have been talking, I only offered her to m9ve back in thursday,have been consulting with IC, on ways to rebuild trust after affair. This one of many suggestions. She started crying and seemed very surprised when I suggested all this.