Yes, you seem to be right, a permenant state of coldness now exisits between us. It is sad business but it is reality at this point. Will it last forever? I don't know. The baffling part is that she got her wish and she is so cold towards me.
It is like psycological warfare. All I can do is be detached and not let her affect me anymore. I have updated her cotact to "Detach" which shows up on my screen when she texts or calls. Lol!
We are having a wonderful time here but again. I am focusing on ensuring the kids and my family have a good time and enjoy each other's company. We have a few more days left and then it's back to the grind. I have so much to do at work it's not even funny. I have to start focusing more on my work. I am afraid it has suffered due to this turmoil and that has to be a priority. It's for me and the security of my kids.
I saw some photos on the web of the OW and her wife and kids. They were at a theme park and were the "happy family" for everyone to see. I just don't get it. Is my W waiting until we are D until she unveils to the world her new relationsip? Are the AP and her wife not splitting? Is the AP and her wife just cool with things the way they are and can play the happy family game and just I can't? Maybe this is how ope marriages work? I have no idea. Aghh... must look away. Can't think about it or give it any more head space. Not my circus.
I am glad that you have planted some seeds and hopefully they will take hold in your W's mind and sould. You are the prize.
