Hang in there. You're a tough one. I'd suggest some camping pranks we used to pull when I was in Boy Scouts, but I'll leave well enough alone. Although, if there is a next time, consider bringing a rubber snake to put in his sleeping bag. Maybe better you just imagine the reaction than actually doing it.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
Thanks so much for checking in! I've been a bit sick the last few days, but am feeling much better.
Odd thing just happened....I came home from work and my H was still up and on the couch. We talked a few minutes and then he went to bed. He's normally never up. I didn't invite him to talk as I feel I have been doing that too much and am not really detaching. So, kept conversation light and cheery and then he went to bed.
Just odd.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
A little bit of small-talk /communication is a good thing. I used to hate having to sit and listen to wife 'ramble on' about her day. Now I understand it is her outlet, one of her ways to vent, to share...something she needs to do. I love hearing it now.
I really think that taking pressure off of the WAS is the biggest step. They need space for themselves, well the only way to make that happen is to give it to them.
It sounds like you've been doing just that. Which is great.
