I was looking for the attention that was missing as she withdrew from everything. She said she gave up months ago. Even asked me if I wanted to get a girlfriend at one point. All after the babies were born and she went back to work. Then withdrew was on Facebook constantly and wouldn't engage me in conversation when we were together.
How does this fit within the timetable of you seeking the connection with OW?
Was your W withdrawing from your M? I don't understand why she told you to get a GF, but at the same time she was having sex with you every day........and leaves you upon learning about your EA. I am just trying to see how all this fits together.
You said when you read the WW thread that you could see your W in much of it. Was your W wayward before she left?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
