The best man 'O' from my wedding reached out last night (he and his wife old friends of mine). We had a nice dinner. She was out of town, and I feel loads better. He helped me see the light. My ex is an utter douche. Not hurting, not the least concerned, it is in fact acting for whomever the audience is so that he cN be nice guy.
O' hasn't talked with my STBX since it all happened. For his own reasons he's chosen not to associate anymore.
I am dodging a bullet. It will hurt but they shouldn't be taken as a reason to put myself back in its path.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
