We are not talking about going to the wedding itself here (a separate choice) but finding out the position, although that is still not WW choice, it's for WB to say it's ok for the wedding and for the decision to go to be made. We should allow others to decide their own feelings and actions. WB may be perfectly happy for this and may even be unhappy that the effort isn't being made to go or recognise the wedding. The two may have a friendship that is important. It isn't for us to say. Awkwardness is for others to decide and we can't prejudge.

We are talking about handing over a gift, wedding day or other day. If WB wants NC then handing over the gift may be inappropriate. I sense not.


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Last edited by Vanilla; 07/11/15 07:10 AM.
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