Hey, dejavu, thanks for stopping by. And thanks for the comfort smile. I’ve been doing some meditation as well, not as much as I used to though. I need to get back to it.

Yes, the friends at the vacation home are still my true friends. I think I will have to win them over completely at some point, because of H’s actions. I think they like me better anyway, LOL.

What I mean by H’s actions… I forgot to mention, that my male friend spoke with H on the phone and asked him to tell that crazy woman to keep away from me. At that party on July 4th, this male friend was flipped (got a middle finger gesture) by that crazy woman. My friend didn’t say or do anything to this woman, so he thinks she did it because H spoke with her and told her what my male friend conveyed to H.

Plus, H is not a big “fan” of babies and toddlers. Soooo, I think my mutual friends are getting a little “annoyed” with H, I would say.

As for me, I’m feeling pretty good these days. I think I accepted the possibility of H having an ow now. I’ve been very busy at work, and it does help me to stay detached as much as possible.

Checked the bank account today and there is a charge… It is for another state county gmvt site. I’m thinking H got a speeding ticket in the town he was driving by on the way from my town to that town where the possible ow lives. Ha! It is a pretty significant amount for H, more than $200.

I also deposited his check yesterday. I also had my own check to deposit, from that side job that I’ve being doing for my former contracting company. I sent H a text this morning that I made a deposit for him. He replied right away thanking me and telling me that he appreciates it. Still not addressing me by my name though…

I’m looking forward to sleeping in tomorrow… I’m very tired. I hope everyone has a great weekend! Thanks for being my virtual friends!

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state