Job - thank you, thank you, thank you. Great insights I did not see.

I know I need to call him out on bad behavior in front of the kids. Is there a link on how to best go about this? Or advice offered somewhere?

Do I do this right when it happens even if it is in front of the kids? Or do I do it offline? I have no idea how he will react. He may go Mt. Vesuvius angry . . .


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced