It is like you touch them with a red hot poker. Don't try the touch, it's intimate and she no longer wants you as her H.
It's classic, and WW is still lost inher fog.
Whether you go to the wedding is her brothers choice not hers. Ask him, of course WW would say "no". I would ask YB not WW otherwise you put him in an awkward place, tell him you would like to congratulate him and can you stop by. Judge your approach based on his reply.
That is what I did with mutual friends and WH family.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW