Two things that are interesting. STBX called to say hi to the kids on her way into work. At the end of the call, she asked if I remembered before we were separated when she used to send me TMs that she missed me. I said yes. Then she asked me if I missed her too when she sent those TMs. I said of course I did but I know I did a bad job expressing it. She said that there was a spot at work where she used to send those TMs and she was reminded of it the other night. I told her that I used to like getting them.

Second thing is that she mentioned in passing that she would just pick up the kids from my house tomorrow now because she has some errands to run. I thought to myself...Really? Errands? I thought you needed to get some rest. I told her that it made no difference, whatever was most convenient for her.

Anyway, having a great night with the kids. Looking forward to my morning with them tomorrow and then my trip out of town afterwards.


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15