Just thinking about all this. Trying to put it all together and make sense out of it. (I know, its not possible to make sense of any of it, but I'm trying to at least understand it all, and assess where I am). I keep an open mind that I too have some say in all this and what comes next.
W and I haven't had the slightest bit of a disagreement in at least a couple weeks, if not three weeks to a month. I haven't been keeping score, but it's been awhile.
Fathers Day weekend I believe was the last discussion we had even remotely resembling a disagreement, and that was just me being cranky and losing sight of DB.
Same day as that disagreement, W buys me some really expensive sunglasses.
W has started organizing stuff in the garage - I discussed this earlier - I should have done it earlier. Seems to actually be bringing some of my stuff IN the house and putting it away as though I still live there or I may return someday at least. (encouraging?)
W has been texting me/calling me for things, and asking me to call her, etc. She genuinely wants to be around me. (Or so it seems...I guess she could just be testing or pretending).
W seems to have shed 90% of her teenager aura.
Great 4th of July weekend together w/ D2.
Nice day 7/5 at the pool and house w/ D2.
Nice lunch together Wednesday 7/8.
W taking me out for b-day dinner and drinks/karaoke after - 7/11.
During all this, some occasional hugs, kissing, and ILY's (I initiated the ILY's twice...not sure if I messed that up or not).
Negatives: I'm still sleeping at my parents house, and I don't know about the status of the A.
I know it's only been a few weeks of good signs, so what do I make of all this? Vets?
