I will discuss with coach on how to proceed. I have not had contact with ww since she told me about om 6 days ago other than one email regarding d. We had some contact almost every day for prior 3 months, but I didnt know about om. I went to IC today, he feels I need to find whats ok with me and communicate that to my w, I am a mess. I dont know how people on here db so well, I cant seem to get out of my own way. I am sober 9 months, and had some good conversations with d about our relationship and how I have acted, and how I am trying to change. I have to give myself credit for that. I like that and other behavioral changes I have made, but I am just scared.
Me:47 W:47 D:12 T:27yrs. M:17yrs. S:10/14 Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr. om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer
