You are leaps and bounds ahead of me in this whole process. I am re-reading the advice you gave me pertaining to my H's possible EA/PA. I see the advice through a very different lens given the info in your last few threads.
Thanks for sharing, very helpful to read.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced