Caliguy, balls definitely not on my court if you understand what I posted, I don't think you would say this
she doesn't want to see me only communicates/texts to say when she filed , when she picks up stuff from our place so I won't be home when she does and when she finally moves all her stuff out. There's no communication , or anything--haven't seen her in almost a month now . She not only doesn't care what's going on with me she won't even see/hear about my changes. Its not about her. It's about YOU. You have to do steps 1 + 2 before there's any reason to worry about 3 + 4. If you reconciled right now, things would not be any different!
