I was snapped 10 years ago in an A. My H ad I tried ( me not hard enough ) for 4 years to make it work. He met someone and we separated. We have not Divorced. His partner has moved countries and I am 3 years into a relationship . My issue is I cannot commit to the new relationship ( as to living together ) . Although I have no more feelings towards my EX I cannot get over the loss of the family unit and I sem ever hopeful that it will be restored. This seems crazy as I cannot for the life of me see how my EXH and I could reconcile. We are very different people. How do I accept this and move on ? Not doing so is impacting on my loving my new partner Am I crazy ?
Hello Pollyanna9999,
You are not crazy! Being hopeful that you can restore your family unit is a good thing. Even though you don't see how you and your STBX could reconcile, it is worth exploring.
Speaking with a DB coach will help clarify your thoughts and feelings.
It would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Please call me to discuss our program at 303-444-7004.
Cristy Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
Last edited by Cristy; 07/10/1506:12 PM.
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