Dif I agree ... and I also feel given the arrangement you are much to available to her.
She told you she "needed a break" so there you both were .. nice evening on the couch. Fast forward a bit when she again needs a break .... but you are not there. Guess what happens ... she now will get a break from OW, but find herself alone with her thoughts, dangerous place for her to be right?
She is currently on a cake eat fest ... she has OW when she wants .. and when that's not available she has you and family time ... I did the same .. pick your spots here, I know some might say pull the rug out from under her .. but I gave W a taste here n there ... like my own drug .. the family drug which is a better high than the A drug as it is REAL .... but there came a time I was tired of dealing, dropped rope and I pulled the plug. At that point she found herself alone on the beach missing family .. not OM and the A.
