I have found myself in the same situation as many

[ATPeace]

She has been building to this point for a number of years I did not truley understand just how lonely and sad she was getting in our marriage

Time just went by with the day to day living and managing looking after 4 children of which she feels she has always done thie lions share

She tells me she has changed and she is not the person she was ....I know we all change

I know that we can never go back to how it was I would not want to but there could be a new beginning a better us but right now I cannot see her changing her mind so it would be this that I feel would have to happen

We are living in the same house and we are talking getting along doing all the things that people do do infact the only reall changes are she is sleeping in a different room ....she had previously talked about this anyway as I snore and have no intamacy we eat together sometimes she will drink from my glass I do her laundry and she does mine

During the day things almost feel normal when we go out with the kids but then evenings are strained going to different rooms and no hugging or kissing