The changes that I made did not last


She wanted me to do more with the children and more arround the house she wanted me to spend quality time with her and treat her as an equal arround the home

I put work clients in front of her and I put myself my hobbies in front of hers

She has been upset for a very long time she would tell me how upset she was and I would listen but then things got better and I though things were ok the way things were going

Recently we have argued over silly things but the crux of this is that she asked for a separation and has said to me that there is no going back she would not have told the kids if she was not prepared to follow this through

She says that since separating she feels less lonely because she is in control of her happiness she does not need to depend or rely on me


Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.