Hello Ghost -
I'm also sorry you are here.

What kinds of changes did you make to get her to reconcile with you 3 years ago? Have they lasted?

How sure are you that there is no OM. I find it hard to believe a mother of 4 would break up her family over dishes being dirty.

You also mentioned in your concern about acts of service (like housework) and also quality time. Which is your W asking for? Both?

At BD - Me: 33 Her: 33; M: 10 T: 15; D: 6 and 3

BD: 3/25/15
S: 4/20/15
D: 11/9/15