Pink, I'm sorry to hear that, and glad all at the same time. Sorry because it is a sad situation when two people love eachother as you clearly do. Glad because at least the financials will be resolved and you can control your own destiny. It is also nice that he didn't challenge the financials and actually helped a little more than he needed to.
Of course you must need some time to grieve. It is such a hard thing to go through, and your M will come to an end now. What that means for your future relationship is unknown at the moment, but I think for you there will be some peace as you truly did all that you could to save the M.
Only you know what you want to do now Pink. Whether you want to truly move on, or leave the door not quite closed is completely up to you. The fat lady has not sung until or unless you decide she has. Who knows, being D may remove all pressure enough that some reconnection may be possible?
For now, do take care of yourself. You did your best and you got through it - that's the main thing. Love and hugs to you, Toots xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus