Acts of intimidation - throwing things at me, punching things around me, destroying my property
Name calling, put downs, silent treatment for days
During piecing, telling me he wanted to date others, then denying saying it; "make me want to be here. This happened during our R too - we shouldn't be engaged; we shouldn't get M, Z...
Manipulation - trlling me I was lying to myself, didn't understand my own feelings, I needed therapy, denying things that happened, continually playing victim card after abuse, I brought these things out in him, I was responsible for his well being and feelings and reactions...telling me I was forceful, miserable...I made him want to kill himself (a theme of suicide came up whenever I tried to discuss my feelings- "would you still say that if I had killed myself"
The big fight he stood with his fists outside my ears after destroying my phone, throwing bowls at me, then slammed door Into me. All the while screaming how I didn't care about him. Wouldn't talk with me for 3 days, ran up my debit card, picked up $$$$$$$$$ check and was smirking at me when I confronted. Guess we just have to D, I can't guarantee it won't happen again, you brought the fight to me, no, I have no remorse. And for a guy who couldn't drive or exercise, he's doing all that now.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
