H called last night to try and figure out dates for my parents visit. I am not sure why he is making such a big deal out of it when he randomly goes and stays elsewhere on the fly anyway I said worse case scenario he can stay in room with me for the night. Said that did not so great since we are not really speaking now. I wanted to say whose fault is that and it is an easy fix, but I STFU.

He sounds more stressed out than I have ever heard him and it seems he is now moved on to being destructive with some work colleagues. I just tried to be sympathetic and listen instead of trying to be the fixer. Said I was sorry he is so stressed out these days. It was the longest we have spoken in weeks, and it was only a 5-10 min call. He diffently seems on a downward spiral. Wondering if rock bottom is anywhere in sight.


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015