Do you help? Gut reaction is no. She's put herself in the situation, she needs to get herself out of it. However, if you're like me, you just can't help yourself to be reasonable. I understand where you're coming from with the 'let's see how she gets on line'. I feel that is detachment. No needy NDY stomping around telling her she'll never be able to do it etc.
That sounds like a good plan. Weather is terrible (again) whereas rest of UK is in blistering sunshine. Typical!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
