Thanks Asitis, my lawyer/friend also said what you said.
Ralphy, very true, I don't want to be around this new woman that doesn't resemble my wife and her texts are helping me detach and not be a crying emotional sap , I'm definitely using her negative , mean and hateful texts as energy for me to improve myself and start living again!
Me:35 W:30 7 years together 11 months married No children W Left me-moved to her moms: June 2015 W filed for D: July 2015