Thank you Matt for the encouragement. I seem to be on the other side of the fence from most on here, I had the EA, she left, and I am trying to get her back and save the marriage.
I understand that. Doesn't really change the concept, in my opinion. When you got married, did you envision yourself having an affair? Nobody knows what the future holds, so there's never a reason to give up hope until you are ready to.
