Thank you Matt for the encouragement. I seem to be on the other side of the fence from most on here, I had the EA, she left, and I am trying to get her back and save the marriage.
Me:35 W:37; S17 D15 D15 D1 D1 M:9 years T:11 BD 5/2/15 W moved out with her D15 our D1 D1 6/15/16 W filed for divorce 6/19/15 W moved back in 7/11/15