I was snapped 10 years ago in an A. My H ad I tried ( me not hard enough ) for 4 years to make it work. He met someone and we separated. We have not Divorced. His partner has moved countries and I am 3 years into a relationship .
My issue is I cannot commit to the new relationship ( as to living together ) . Although I have no more feelings towards my EX I cannot get over the loss of the family unit and I sem ever hopeful that it will be restored. This seems crazy as I cannot for the life of me see how my EXH and I could reconcile. We are very different people.
How do I accept this and move on ? Not doing so is impacting on my loving my new partner
Am I crazy ?