He has not moved out. He is still living at home. I think this is what makes it a bit diffferent of a sitch. So, if he is home and having an affair then he is a cake eater.

If he moved out after BD then that is different. But living at home, if he is having EA/PA he is playing model dad to kids, family etc. Basically he is getting everything he wants.


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced