seperated 4 months, its now 9 months, oh and om

[Joe46]

I am not sure if I should chime in here or not. I will be careful what I say. Help, as hard as this is, you are going to have to start taking the focus off your WW. I know it is hard. I read your posts and there is alot in there about the affair. What are you really going to get out of knowing a timeline. Does it matter? You can get something from listening to both your coach and sandi. You will get different views on things here sometimes. I was told to take what you can and use what is best for your situation.