I just thought of something. I dont know when the affair started, as they were just friends to start. My w might have been a ww from the beginning or she may have been a was and then the affair started after she left, I think this may be important to know, do I ask her about a timeline somehow. If she was wayward to start with, I think I should follow sandi, but if she started as a was and then became involved then I would follow coach advise.
Me:47 W:47 D:12 T:27yrs. M:17yrs. S:10/14 Wife wants legal sep., which can be divorce after 1 yr. om b 7/15 but probably a lot longer
