On silence and patience

[Painter]

If she asks for your assistance, outside what she is entitled to (like part of the furniture), I'd just say 'I'll have to think about it and get back to you.' Then figure out what your boundaries are.

I don't see why you should help her go through with something you disagree with.

And take that L by the collar and give him a good shake! That is unacceptable that he communicates and sends letters without you approving it first!