He signed the papers today. I feel so mixed up.

After two months of Nc, sent me a random text to ask if I'd tried to sign us up for health ins 2days ago. I didn't reply.

Then my friend told me he'd signed and demanded to know who I was with. That the paralegal had told him no one pushes this hard for a D unless an affair.

Friend told him I just wanted closure.

I hurt.

Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.